Teething is a stressful and trying time for both parents and babies. Those teeth and gums hurt and babies cry to let their parents know. Frustrating parents sometimes feel helpless when their little ones start to teeth. The once sweet and mild mannered baby has suddenly changed into a drooling, whimpering mess. You can help your child and in at the same time, gain some sanity.

There will be no mistaking the signs of teething. Most often, the first sign is drooling. This usually starts at around four or five months of age and does not let up until the teething is over. Next, you will start to notice swollen gums. This normally starts on the bottom first, although every child can be different. You will be able to see the teeth bulging from right under the surface of the gum. Other signs of teething include fussiness, waking up in the middle of the night and chewing. You will notice that you child is putting everything in his or her mouth. Signs that are also normal may also include a low-grade fever, rash on the face and neck, coughing and diarrhea.

Here are some ways to help your teething child.

Teething Toys: There are many toys that are made just for the teething infant. These are usually made of a soft plastic and some can even be frozen. This is a time when you will want to make sure your child is not chewing on anything dangerous. You will notice that he or she will chew on everything from toys to their own fingers.

Frozen treats: Anything that is frozen will help your child feel better. The sensation feels really great on swollen gums. Do not give your child anything that he or she can choke on though. One great idea is to take a clean washcloth, get it wet and squeeze out the excess water, place it in a sandwich bag and freeze. After it is frozen, give it to your child to chew on. You can also give your baby Popsicles (you might want to remove the sticks), frozen teething toys and frozen bananas.

Teething Gel: Teething gels are another option for sore gums. There are plenty of over the counter medications that you can buy that come in gels, liquids or paste. These work to numb the gums, and will not have a lasting effect. Remember that these do not taste very good and that if you use too much, it can also numb the tongue and the lips. Try to use these sparingly.

Over the Counter Medication: You can safely use many over the counter medications for your child's teething. Most doctors recommend Ibuprofen or Acetaminophen (Tylenol). Just remember to always adhere to the dosing directions on the package and never give your child more medication just to ease the pain.

Teething is both an exciting and painful time for you and your child. It is your job to make sure your child is as comfortable as possible during this time.